Divorce Strategies

Love is strong, but it is not indestructible. Is your issue about being in a marriage? To stay or to leave? The moment of crisis is when you or your spouse acknowledge the breakdown in the relationship. Nearly one out of every two marriages break up and every 13 seconds, someone gets divorced in the United States. That means that more than one million couples get divorced each year. Divorce is a fact of life and nothing lasts forever and once it is over it is time to survive and begin to plan for a new beginning. In the end, how it works out is up to you. You will write the script.

Building a new life is what your divorce is really all about. You need a strategy. Contact us before you move out of the house and before you contact a lawyer. You need to explore a variety of options and decide upon a strategy. We can help.Do not resign yourself to the looming uncertainty of divorce. You likely do not have the time to immerse yourself into the convulsive world that you are in. The pain of divorce is excruciating and it invades one's whole life space. There is custody, visitation rights, property and the splitting of expenses. We are experts in strategy and have helped several of our clients craft highly creative divorce strategies before they met with their attorney.

Our rates are a bargain compared to meeting with an attorney and we can help you plan for this important life changing event. Marriage challenges are not unique. Speak with someone honestly about your struggle. Whether your issue involves work/life balance, raising children, the failure to keep marital sex exciting or infidelity we can help. Many of our strategy coaches have been through a divorce and they will help you gain perspective before you begin to plan to make a change. If a change is necessary we can help you develop your strategy and refer you to a qualified attorney that will meet your requirements and budget.

There is nothing easy about going through a divorce. It can be a savage and seemingly endless journey. You do not know where it will end. So why not have a plan? A divorce is not the end of the end......it is a new beginning and it will turn out much better if you have a plan and the best plan involves keeping your family together. Our Divorce Strategies coaching philosophy follows the strategies of The Good Divorce by Constance Ahrons, Ph. D.. Within her ground breaking book she expresses her opinion that good divorces are possible and that, "it is never too late to have a good divorce."

The choice is yours.......if your marriage is finished begin to plan for a new future. The end of a marriage is the death of a relationship. Reset the clock and contact us. Explain your issue and tell us what is your preference in the type of life strategy coach you want to meet with. We can arrange for you to speak with a male or female life strategy coach who is familiar with the emotions of divorce. Take a bold step and contact us. Allow our creativity and imagination go to work for you. Helping our clients develop their strategy is our business. Let us help you develop yours. Do not let the chaos of divorce overwhelm you. We will get you matched with the life coach who meets your needs and will help you with the challenges you face in your journey to a new beginning.

We specialize in helping Divorced Dads achieving their objectives and making shared custody work. Divorce is especially complex when children are involved. Do not lose sight of the basic and essential needs of your children. Divorce does not mean a broken home.....just a reorganized one......we can provide practical and workable solutions. Rely on proven practical experience and insightful perspectives to help you reach a thoughtful approach. We offer a highly innovative and creative alternative to divorced parents, with expertise in mediation and coaching towards shared objectives.

We offer customized financial programs to meet your needs within this area of our practice.

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The Good Divorce by Constance Ahrons, Ph.D.

The eventual destination at the end of a divorce involving children is to establish two families.....with no fighting. Divorce is especially complex when children are involved. Can a family be divided, but not broken? Can two families bring about an exponentially greater number of opportunities for a child of divorce instead of limit them?

Constance Ahrons, Ph.D. thinks so and touches on every aspect of divorce in her book, The Good Divorce. Her view is that a divorce does not have to mean a broken home with children taking sides, but a reorganized one. How do you keep kids out of the middle? She provides her view that shared custody can work and at all times keeps in mind the very basic and essential needs of the children.

Capstone Consulting Partners provides a unique and alternative approach to divorce by engaging trained professionals who are specialists in mediation to redefine family life and how to organize it, strengthen it and keep it focused on what is in the best interests of the children. How do families split times. What if you live a thousand miles apart? Can you live just a few blocks apart?

No family is exactly alike. We can help you craft your own agreement before you engage an attorney. Say good bye to your old marriage and say hello to a new beginning. Make a new life. Establish boundaries. No matter what the circumstance establishing two families is possible. We can assist you in engineering unique cooperative "parenting" relationships even if your spouse is angry, vindictive or possessive. You do not need to love your former mate anymore, you only need communication and cooperation to establish a working relationship to carry out the most important job anyone ever undertakes.......raising your children.

We specialize in helping divorced fathers.....whether you are with or without custody. The needs of parents without custody are just as poignant and acute as those of parents with custody. The process of achieving a Good Divorce is not a myth.....it can be your reality. With time and effort a Good Divorce is possible and can be achieved.

Financial Strategies

One of the biggest shocks of the break up of a marriage is financial. The upheaval and disruption to one's finances during a divorce cannot be immediately appreciated. Economic uncertainty is a constant source of anxiety and as the emotional turmoil is unfolding money matters will intrude. The intensity of the financial decisions range from health insurance to taxes to how much should be allocated to legal fees.

Should mediation be attempted or should a collaborative divorce process be attempted? Or should you hang on by your fingernails to see how this all will work out for you? The legal vortex will suck you in and will hang you out to dry. Our divorce strategists can help you as you go through the process of watching your marriage end. A non traditional divorce strategy may be your best answer. We can assist you in this process as our divorce strategists are experienced in this area of planning.

Protecting your financial interests as you watch your marriage dissolve is what we can do for you. You first response is to be emotional, however that is not the way to see this life changing event through. The long term financial concerns matter and having a financial strategy is the only way to achieving an equitable split.

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Fees

Our fee structure is up front and is very reasonable.

Our personal relationship and life strategy coaches bill at the rate of $100 per hour of time (one full hour......not 45-50 minutes) for the services described above. We also provide telephone coaching at $100 for one full hour and online email coaching at rates which are even more competitive. Our coaches will come to you if you are located in the city of Chicago. Customized payment plans are also available.

Contact us to learn more and we will custom design an affordable program to change your life and develop your divorce strategy.

Invest in your future and bring about the positive change you already know you need. Our strategy coaches can help you understand the dynamics of what is going on in your life and help you reach some important conclusions about your future. Want to know more? Contact us and we can get your custom designed life coaching program started and underway. Don't wait another day! You will not regret that first call that you got started. Nothing will ever be the same again!

Our offices are conveniently located in the Printers Row District of Downtown Chicago. We are convenient to all expressways and parking in the South Loop is a no hassle breeze.

Our phone number for our Relationship Strategies service is 312-480-9955 or 312-753-5701.