Matchmaker Services
Matchmaker Services ~ Seek and You Shall Find
You have probably heard the phrase,......"Seek and YOU Shall Find."
Have you been looking everywhere and haven't found your true love? That magic force that without it we perish.....are you missing your other half and don't know what to do........you are dating, but not mating..........and not living happily. You don't have time.......What should you do? How do you find that relationship that will make you feel complete?
We can help you in the Matchmaking Process. Engaging a personal Matchmaker to help you in your search can be a sound investment. It is a smart and efficient way to invest in your future and utilize your precious time. We have a Matchmaker service with both men and women Matchmakers who will confidentially help you and take the tedium out of the process. We do the work for you. If you do not have the time or patience for the online process of dating our unique Matchmaker Services may be what you have been looking for.
How do you make the laws of attraction work for you? Learn what to do and say and how to take the steps that will get you what you want. Make arrangements to meet with one of our Matchmakers to get practical advice to getting on the path of meeting your soul mate and make your relationship dreams come true!
Finding love is important to all aspects of your life. When we are without it we are miserable. Once you begin our program there is no way of knowing where your path will take you, however we know that new and exciting opportunities will come your way. Our Matchmaker service begins with an objective look at a variety of aspects of behavior which help in the process of finding a potential partner who will meet your needs which is critical to finding happiness.
If you are looking for that special someone........believe in the future and take steps to live happier than you are now. Our personalized Matchmaker service will be personally proactive in representing you and helping you find "The One." Allow us to use our search expertise, critical thinking and creative skills for you. We will personally recruit for you and get you connected.
Customized fee arrangements make this program affordable.
Is Love Blind?
"But love is blind, and lovers cannot see the the pretty follies that they themselves commit." ~ William Shakespeare, The Merchant of Venice.
Nothing escapes the eyes........Is love blind?
True love is not blind.
The brain affects all of our relationships. When you look at someone who is attractive to you, nerve cells begin to ignite in the brain.
Adrenaline is released, blood flow is redirected and the emotional fires begin. The scent of smell is engaged as the eyes meet. Smiles begin to appear as the beat of the heart quickens.
You know it when it happens.
You feel it under your skin and touch becomes reassuring and essential.
There are vibrations in the air. It is a crazy thing called love. The brain needs what it wants and misses what it needs when that person is away. You sleep peacefully, knowing that your special person is lying next to you and you awake often just so you can feel their skin.
How does this phenomenon happen?
The vast majority of love.......and sex.......occurs in the brain. Scientists now agree that the brain is the organ of behavior. The brain decides who is attractive to you and will decide how those feelings develop and how long they last. The brain is the key to having a love obsession or a breakup depression. When the brain is working right you are open to finding love and romance. Only then is intimacy possible. When the brain is not functioning properly, love and intimacy are not possible.
The brain has also been conclusively linked to sexual dysfunction in both men and women. A healthy brain is critical to having a healthy relationship and a healthy sex life. In men erectile dysfunction is not uncommon. In women aging and menopause often negatively affect sexual interest and performance. Ultimately having a healthy brain is critical to having a healthy relationship with another person. The brain is at the core of our love universe and our sexual universe.
Dr. Daniel G. Amen is one of the leading brain imaging experts and has been a pioneer in the study of the brain and linking happiness to having a healthy and active brain. His bias is clear......Sex is the best indicator of a committed loving relationship. Anthropologist Helen Fisher writes, "Do not copulate with people that you do not want to fall in love with, because you might just do that." According to Fisher, sex prompts the release of oxytocin that spus bonding and provides a sensation that we are permanently attached to another.
Dr. Laura Berman, Ph.d. and Jennifer Berman, M.D. are among the nations leading experts on women's sexual health. They suggest in their book, Secrets of the Sexually Satisfied Woman that a relationship is doomed if she is not being sexually satisfied. This is probably just as true for men as it is for women. Achieving a sexual match with your partner is not a mystery. It can be achieved, however it requires a realization that human sexuality is central to who we are and is a central component of relationships and our society. Sex is both complex and simple.......it must be understood to become mutually aligned. Sex is not genital......although it certainly feels that way......however, it all occurs in the brain. The brain is what drives enthusiasm in the bedroom or drains us of having all desire and passion.
Do you celebrate your sexual life? How important is it to you that you have a romantic life that leads to ecstasy under the sheets? Do you want to reach your ultimate passionate connection which contributes greatly to general health and wellness? How important is sexual satisfaction to you? How do you overcome the hurdles and stumbling blocks? If you believe that sex matters and is a fundamental part of who you really are, then we might be the right Matchmaker Service for you. Our Matchmaker process acknowledges that sex is is key to a satisfying relationship and a satisfying life.
Celebrate sex and you will celebrate life.
Why Him? Why Her?
Why do you fall in love with one person rather than another? Helen Fisher examines the reasons why in her book, "Why Him? Why Her?" She is one of the leading experts on the nature of romantic love and attachment and is the scientific adviser to Chemistry.com, a division of Match.com.
Her insights are one of the foundations of our Matchmaker Services. She has studied over 40,000 men and women and we have drawn on her conclusions to build a unique process to finding a mate to your matchmaking advantage. Her research provides a new approach to dating, love and marriage. We use her research and insight, with our expertise in making successful professional matches along with nature's chemistry to help you in the area of finding your next mate. Our approach has you connecting to your mind to help you understand your needs and desires as the first step in this innovative process.
We use the very same techniques to screen potential candidates for you and to gain their insight and perspective on their views on happiness, relationships, emotions and intimacy. We get the information up front to help YOU get to the "Right Fit" and to being at Stage One in a relationship.
According to Fisher, love at first sight may only happen in about 10% of relationship matches, but within ten minutes of meeting a man, a woman has a clear idea of who he is, or at least who he might be for her, and her heart of hearts has already told her whether or not she is going to fall in love with him. It happens this way for men too. If we walk into a crowded room full of people we do not know, it generally takes only seconds before the mind is making judgments of whom we feel attracted to. Many other things also factor into romantic ardor and whom it is that you will choose. Such things as the voice, the shape of the face and body, movement, scent and many other personality factors play a part into whom we want to be with. No two romantic partnerships are exactly alike and every possible romantic combination has its merits.
Helen Fisher makes many interesting points and reveals some secrets such as; men fall in love faster than women do, most likely because they are so visual. Women often underestimate a man's willingness to commit. Humans are born to love. Romantic love is a human drive, one of three basic brain systems that evolved millions of years ago. The sex drive motivates us to seek sex with a range of partners; romantic love predisposes us to focus our mating energy on just one individual at a time; and feelings of deep attachment inspire us to stay with a partner long enough to raise our children as a team.
Let us use the research and insight of Helen Fischer along with the insights of our executive search proactive and that of many other experts to help you pick the right partner. Regardless of how long you have been looking or how difficult you believe your search might be, our Matchmaking Process will enlighten you and better equip you to better understand the secrets of romance and use the tools of Mother Nature more effectively. Having knowledge is power. Understand who you are, what you are in search of, and how you and others love. Find happiness, by finding the relationship that will enhance your life.
The magic of love is all around and you can capture that magic. Let us help you put yourself out there. We will maintain control and maintain your privacy.
Fees
Our fee structure is up front and is very reasonable. For $250 we will meet with you for 2-3 hours and our staff of creative writers will interview you and develop your online bio.
Our personal relationship and life strategy coaches bill at the rate of $100 per hour of time (one full hour......not 45-50 minutes) for any of the services described above. We also provide telephone coaching at $100 for one full hour and online email coaching at rates which are even more competitive. Our coaches will also come to you if you are located in the city of Chicago. Customized payment plans are also available.
Our Matchmaker Services are the most competitively priced in Chicago. We have the know how to make the connections you want. We will search exclusively for you. Improve your life......enhance your relationships and get what you deserve. Contact us to learn more about our Matchmaker Services and we will custom design an affordable program to change your life and relationship paradigm.
Invest in your future and bring about the positive change you already know you need. Our strategy coaches can help you understand the dynamics of what is going on in your life and help you reach some important conclusions about your future. Want to know more? Contact us and we can get your custom designed life coaching program started and underway. Don't wait another day! You will not regret that first call that you got started. Nothing will ever be the same again!
Our offices are conveniently located in the Printers Row District of Downtown Chicago. We are convenient to all expressways and parking in the South Loop is a no hassle breeze.
Our phone number for our Relationship Strategies service is 312-480-9955 or 312-753-5701.
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